This article is from the Romance and Dating FAQ, by Henning Klaskala alt.romance.FAQ@online.de with numerous contributions by others.
Be open, yourself, and remember that
1) Everybody is entitled to their feelings, no matter
how illogical they are;
2) There is no such thing as 'blame'... Everybody
involved is equally at fault;
3) Don't attack, but express -- Not 'You did
this/that,' but 'I feel this/that';
4) Don't leave a problem unresolved -- it will just get
worse with time;
5) Nobody's perfect -- not even you....
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