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25. What are the "codes"?

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This article is from the Bondage FAQ, by numerous contributors.

25. What are the "codes"?

Often the "hanky code" is mentioned on s.s.b-b. What is it? It's a
tradition in the scene that if you're into certain types of activities
you can indicate them by wearing a handkerchief in either your left or
right back pockets. The color indicates the activity; the side, the
preferred position (left is top, right is bottom). Some of the colors
are gray for bondage (left is you like to tie, right is you like to be
tied up), red for anal fisting (left fister, right fistee), and black
for heavy SM (piercing, serious whipping, etc.); there are many many
many more. I don't have a list handy.

Sometimes the same thing is done with keys or handcuffs--keys on the
left means you're a top, on the right means you're a bottom. It's all
just a way to signal your preferences in a public place.

Despite persistent rumors, there seems to be no "earring code" involving
earrings on the left/right/both/whatever.

If this is nowhere near enough detail for you, check out
{http://www.halcyon.com/elf/hankies.html} Elf's hanky code list.

 

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