This article is from the Car Audio FAQ, by Ian D. Bjorhovde (ianbjor@mobileaudio.com) with numerous contributions by others.
There are two types of relays that are commonly used in 12-volt
automotive applications: Single-pole Double Throw (SPDT) relays, which
have 5 pins, and Single Pole, Single Throw (SPST) relays, which have 4
pins. Depending on the application, you can use either of these; for
remote turn-on leads (see Section 5.11), an SPST relay is fine,
SPDT relays are often used in alarm installations. Make sure that you
get a 12-volt relay - this specifies the voltage required to make the
relay "switch."
The connections on the two types of relays look like this:
SPST SPDT
===================== =====================
(87) (87)
+---------+ +---------+
| --- | | --- |
| | | |
(86) | | | | (85) (86) | | --- | | (87a - center)
| | | | (85 - right)
| | | | | |
+---------+ +---------+
(30) (30)
 
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