This article is from the General Pregnancy FAQ, by swnymph@FensEnde.com (Sabrina Cuddy) with numerous contributions by others.
I can't tell you when to buy furniture since my nursery's been done for
three years now. We lost our first child at 8 months, so I had already
gotten all the furniture. I would suggest if you see a good bargain to
go for it though, all my furniture is second hand, I'm not picky as
long as it is in good shape and poses no safety hazards.
I would leave most of the minor things to the last month or so or at least
until all your baby showers have been thrown, It's amazing how much little
stuff you get.
I've opted not to take birthing classes, It's also 50/50 on my having
another c-section and I'd hate to waste the money, so I've just checked
out a couple of books and video's from our local library and video store.
It's also up in the air about the birthing plan. The DR knows I prefer
to go natural if possible though.
I'll probably stay home for the first couple months after birth so I
haven't thought about day-care plus my mother only lives 15 minutes
away:-).
We already picked a name, I'd start this as soon as possible, just pick
one boy and one girl name. My sister-in-law and her husband never decided
until she was ready to leave the hospital and they regret not spending
more time on it.
I constantly read up on baby care, I figure the more I know the better off
I'll be.
I suggest that once you pick your hospital that in your 8th month (give or
take) you take a tour, most hospitals hold maternity tours and its worth
the time for you and your other to take. It gives you a feel for the
place and keeps you from getting that lost feeling.
I haven't even begin to think about the financial side yet. I also
don't know when to pack for the hospital either or pick a pediatrician,
I have though made note of the pediatricians located near our home.
If you don't already have it, I would suggest the "What to expect When
your expecting" book. My DR provided me with a copy and I think it's
great but opinions will differ, browse through it at the store if you
like.
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