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Frequently Asked Questions about Spanking

This FAQ about Spanking was compiled and written by Redman@cris.com (C-Red) with numerous contributions by others.

Contributors: Dave in S CAL, Debbie Ann, Adrian, Alex, C-Red, Llori, et. al.

This document contains explicit sexual information. If you do not wish to view such information, I advise you to skip this document.

Permission is granted to copy and redistribute this document electronically provided that it remains complete and unmodified. CD publishers take note: this does not include you.

Until the FAQ becomes accepted by the *.answers moderators, the only places to obtain this draft version are the newsgroup alt.sex.spanking (irregularly posted for now) and the a.s.s. Spanking Resource page at http://www.cris.com/~Redman/spkg .

Comments on this document can be sent to C-Red Redman@cris.com or debbie ann debbie@netcom.com .

-1.1 What is alt.sex.spanking all about?
Alt.sex.spanking (a.s.s.) is a splinter group from alt.sex....
-1.2 Why is this newsgroup so friendly?
The vast majority of people who post are here to talk about spanking ...
-1.3 Is spanking a form of BDSM?
Whether one considers spanking as a sub-set of BDSM (bondage,...
-1.4 What is the difference between spanking and spousal abuse?
At a minimum, the difference would be whether there was consent of ...
-1.5 What is the difference between spanking and flagellation?
Spanking is a subset of flagellation. The spankings of interest to a.s.s....
-1.6 Is it possible to meet people through this newsgroup?
Yes. By becoming a positive participant of a.s.s., others may ...
-1.7 What is alt.personals.spanking?
Alt.personals.spanking is the appropriate newsgroup to post personal ...
-1.8 Is it appropriate to post personal ads here?
No. Post personal ads to alt.personals.spanking....
-1.9 Might I find certain postings to be offensive or distasteful?
Yes. You should assume that there will always be some articles that do ...
-1.10 What is "delurking" and how do I do it?
To lurk is to read a newsgroup without posting. To delurk is to ...
-1.11 What is the roster and why should I submit an entry?
The A.S.S. Roster is similar to a club roster. It is a compilation of ...
-1.12 I'm female. Will I be inundated with unwelcome e-mail solicitations if I delurk or list an entry in the roster?
As is the case with all the alt.sex newsgroups, females generally get ...
-2.1 What is appropriate to post here?
Just about any text that relates to erotic spanking -- fiction, real-...
-2.2 What is inappropriate to post here?
non-text material is never appropriate. Please post spanking pictures ...
-2.3 What are common mistakes made by newcomers?
Posting personal ads. Posting spanking binaries outside of a.b.p.e.b. ...
-2.4 Is it appropriate to flame heterocentric language and attitudes?
Many heterosexuals read and post to a.s.s. and are to be extended the ...
-2.5 Is it appropriate to post real-life experiences or stories involving the spanking of children?
Yes. Many of us either experienced or witnessed spankings as a child ...
-2.6 Is it appropriate to discuss the legitimacy of spanking as a form of discipline for children in real life?
No. This is best left to alt.parenting.solutions, alt.parenting.spanking,...
-2.7 Is it appropriate to discuss news stories about spanking such as the Michael Faye caning?
Yes. These are appropriate to post and discuss here because many of us ...
-2.8 How should stories be titled and introduced?
Because tastes vary, it is customary to use descriptive titles when ...
-2.9 Are male/male spanking stories appropriate to post here?
Yes, male/male stories are appropriate to post here. If you don't ...
-3.1 Keywords Found in Story Subject Lines
Note: The terms listed below are by no means required to post a story....
-3.2 Common Abbreviations on Alt.Sex.Spanking
a.b.p.e.b. Alt.Binaries.Pictures.Erotica.Bondage - one appropriate ...
-3.3 Some Useful Definitions
Sie Gender-neutral pronoun equivalent to She or ...
-4.1 I've been fascinated by spanking since I was a child. Am I alone?
No. Just the traffic on this newsgroup is indicative of a ...
-4.2 Do my fantasies have to be consistent with my values and ethics?
No. Just as it is possible to have a rape fantasy without condoning rape,...
-4.3 Will my interest in spanking escalate into other forms of kinky sex?
Maybe, maybe not. If you already relate to other forms of BDSM ...
-5.1 I'd like to reveal my spanking interests to my partner but am afraid of being rebuffed. What should I do?
There are actually multiple answers to this question, depending on ...
-5.2 I've never been spanked before but would like to be. What should I do?
If you're adverse to asking for a spanking, you can try being teasing ...
-5.3 I've never given a spanking before but would like to. What should I do?
In some ways, this is easier than wanting to be spanked, because you ...
-5.4 I feel silly when I try to play out spankings. How do I make my experiences meet my fantasies?
One thing that you have to keep in mind is that your fantasies are '...
-5.5 What does consensuality mean?
In general, consensuality means that both parties (the spanker and ...
-5.6 What is a safeword?
A safeword is a word that a spankee may use to stop spanking ...
-5.7 Is there a consensus here regarding consensuality and safewords?
Yes and no. It is a commonly held view here that spanking play should ...
-5.8 My partner or I have a low tolerance for pain. Will we be able to enjoy spankings?
It depends. It is possible to work around a low pain tolerance with a ...
-5.9 How can I get my partner to spank me harder?
If your partner actively enjoys spanking you already, you can probably ...
-5.10 How do I minimize the risk of physical injury during spanking play?
It is the responsibility of both parties to play safely. Just as ...
-5.11 Can any of you 'seasoned veterans' offer suggestions on how bruising can be prevented - or at least minimized?
Toys that are heavy in relationship to their breadth bruise more. ...
-6.1 Other Usenet Groups
-6.2 Web Sites
-6.4 Spanking IRC Channels









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