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This article is from the Romance and
Dating FAQ, by Henning Klaskala alt.romance.FAQ@online.de with
numerous contributions by others.
4# First Kiss: Are Glasses A Problem?
From: bweiss@cs.arizona.edu (Beth Weiss)
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If she resists, is scared, or feels guilty, she's not ready to be
kissed. If your gentle attempt to kiss her doesn't meet with shy
acceptance, then she's not ready--and you should stop. If that
happens, tell her you understand, and ask if you can try again in a
few days or a few weeks.
> But, what embarrassing it is, if our glasses stop my way just on
> the critical moment....
From experience, glasses don't get in the way very much at all. If
only one party is wearing glasses, it's hardly ever a problem. If
they both are, kissing can still be done quite easily.
However, if you're worried about it, you might try this (and it will
give her a chance to decide if she's just a little timid or if she
wants you to stop):
Reach over and gently take off her glasses, saying softly, "I'd
like to kiss you"
(optional: take off your glasses)
Then kiss her gently
> ps. Note that the important keyword : First Time.
IMHE, first kisses don't tend to be as passionate as those shown in
the movies--you can do it with glasses on. If they get in the way,
one or both of you will pull back long enough to take them off.
From: ar2j+@andrew.cmu.edu (Anthony Russell Rosania)
When I first kissed my first girlfriend, our glasses bumped and clicked,
we both laughed took them off, and we kissed, not picture perfect
romance, but it was a good tension breaker, we we're both alot more
relaxed that way.
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